Selfish vs. Selfless: Post Valentine's Day Blurbs

Some may define "selfishness" as a vice, while others may define "selflessness" as a virtue.
How altruistic, after all, to put your needs aside for others.

Altruistic or stupid?
Whoops, there goes that lack of a filter again.

Valentine's Day is all about showing affection to the true love in your life, whether it be your significant others or close family and friends (wtf, "Galentine's Day.") But what about showing love to yourself? And why should it just be restricted to a single day?

Self love, or being selfish, is necessary sometimes.
I truly believe in taking care of yourself first and foremost, before helping others.
This aligns with my current resolutions.

More blurbs another time...

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